Level up
Reading people
Spotting the habit before the move.
Play anyone at Street Fighter II enough and you learn them. They always jump in after a fireball. They throw when they are cornered. They panic after losing a round. Good players are not faster; they are better at watching.
Every two-player game is a crash course in reading another human being.
Train it on purpose
- Spend a whole round just watching your opponent. Do not try to win it. Name their habit.
- After a match, tell your mate what you think their habit is. See if you were right.
- Notice your own tells. Everyone has them.
Off the couch
This is the big one. Knowing when someone is bored, keen, nervous or done with the conversation is most of what makes a person good to be around. Most blokes are too busy waiting for their turn to talk. Watch first, then speak, and you will be better at dates, better at work and better at spotting when a mate needs a hand.
Sources
- Goffman, E. (1961). Encounters: Two Studies in the Sociology of Interaction ('Fun in Games').























